Thursday, October 30, 2008

Weekend Shenooligans

In an earlier post, I talked about all of the fun and adventure Cara and I had in store for us last weekend. And then I fell off the map. Hopefully none of my adoring fans thought the weekend left me lying in bed recovering from exhaustion. Certainly not the case! In fact, it was a perfect dose of fun and adventure. Now, let me tell you about it.

On Friday, Cara and I went to the Taylor Swift and Rascal Flatts concert at Thomson-Boling Arena (where we'll watch our #11 Zags battle the Vols in a few short months!!). We got all "gussied up" as Cara would call it and headed to the concert which started at 8pm. Of course, we left at about 7:45 figuring traffic wouldn't be too bad. We were mistaken. There was a steady stream of last minute concert-goer traffic so we were about 20 minutes late and missed some of Taylor Swift's set. I must admit, she puts on quite a show. Her stage presence is fun - very light-hearted - and her songs are kinda catchy. Some of them are even pretty good -- "Love Story" is my fave. Wow - just now I saw a bit of my manhood disappear in admitting that. I'm sure it's at some bar sipping whiskey, watching sports, and soaking up some classic rock; recovering from the Taylor Swift-ness I just ambushed it with!

Okay, so now that the cat is out of the bag - I'll move on to my review of Rascal Flatts. I like some of their songs - "Here's to You" is one of my all-time favorites. You can bet your britches I danced, rocked and bounced along when they played that one. Otherwise, I spent most of their set thinking about how badly my feet and legs hurt from standing the entire time (we were in the General Admission "Bob Your Head"section. That's either a sign that (a) I'm getting old and crotchety, (b) Rascal Flatts does not put on a great show, or (c) both. I think the answer is (c). The other day at the doctor's office I was writing my age as 26 on all the forms. Clearly, I seem to have forgotten my recent birthday (August 25th) which I share with Sean Connery, Rachel Ray, Regis Philbin, and Elvis Costello among others. Newsflash: I am now 27. I write that more to hammer it into my own head than to broadcast it worldwide. The reality is, 27 is not THAT old.

So, Rascal Flatts must not put on a great show. And that's a fact. I think they are worth seeing once - concerts are a fun experience. And they do have a few songs that really get the crowd enthused. But, overall their show seemed to be low on energy, a bit fake, and the bad kind of cheesy that leaves a bad taste in your mouth (e.g., not good cheesy - which is something I have made into an art form as is clearly evidenced in the photograph to the right!). Also, Rascal Flatts makes full and blatant use of text messaging during their shows - they must get some serious revenue from the text messaging service they use because they had the whole arena texting. Before the show you could text a message to have it shown on the arena jumbotron and you also had a chance to win backstage passes after the show. Cara and I both texted and neither one of us won, nor did we see our respective messages displayed in the arena. What we did get was enrolled into the Rascal Flatts text message fan club - so we've been receiving sporadic, gimmicky, and annoying text messages from Rascal Flatts telling us about other offers and chances to win tickets. Annoying! About halfway through the show, Joe Don told the concert goers to text him at his special text number for a special gift. Cara did that - and to this day still hasn't received her gift. And if he thinks singing a special song was the special gift, well than I got the special gift too without having to text him...so ummm...yeah. Kinda lame. The icing on the cake? The encore consisted of two songs complete with confetti and balloons. Two songs?!? Balloons and Confetti?!? What kind of a lame-o encore performance is that?? By that point I was just wishing we were in the car headed home. But, don't let my cynicism fool you - Cara and I had fun and I'm glad we went. I just wouldn't do it again for Rascal Flatts. For Taylor Swift? Maybe. Just don't go telling anyone I said that. My manhood has taken enough of a blow with this blog already.

On Saturday Cara and I got up and did some serious cleaning and reorganizing to make ready for my old roommate Quinn to stay the night with his fiancee Deborah, who were coming into town for the UT vs Alabama game (which has come to be known as the Third Saturday in October, down here in SEC football country). The two met while in the MAcc (Masters in Accounting) program at UT and are getting married next May 2nd. I am honored to be a groomsmen in their wedding.

On an unrelated note, I'll have to try and get some good pictures of the reorganized house up soon. It looks pretty good. Cara and I are going to try and tackle some interior painting this weekend. She's even started with the blue tape. Wish us luck! And you can count on a few pictures and a blog to keep you updated on that excitement...whoo hoo!

Quinn and Deborah arrived around 4pm with Deb's adorable little Maltipoo, Snuggles. Snuggles and I had quite a bond back in the day, so it was a nice little reunion. It was awesome to see Quinn and Deborah too! After catching up for a bit at the house, we all headed out to a pre-game tailgate across the river from Neyland Stadium. The evening could not have been nicer! Sipping whiskey and coke, a few cold beers, and eating some delicious bbq with friends and foe alike (Deborah is a huge Alabama fan...grrr!!) was the perfect way to prepare for the big game. And for Cara, it was her first experience with Tennessee footbal. See Cara's take on the game in her earlier blog. As the game drew near, we got in line for the water taxi that would ferry us across the river for the game. Due in part to misjudgment by us and conservative passenger limits (only 19 people at a time, no ifs, ands, or buts!), we waited for 45 minutes to board the water ferry. The game started to the roar of the crowd. We waited. But, we didn't let the wait dampen our spirits. Cara and I kept each other warm and the the evening was too perfect to be stressed. When we finally did board the water ferry to head across the river, it was really starting to get cold and Cara and I were both excited to get into the stadium for some SEC football! The water taxi ride was brief and afforded us an awesome view of the Henley Street bridge, which they had all lit up in orange and white for the big game. All in all, a pretty impressive sight, wouldn't you say? The view from our seats wasn't bad either. Well...unless you count the way the Vols played. They got manhandled by the visiting Crimson Tide, much to the satisfaction of the houndstooth cap wearing, cigar smoking Alabama fans in front of us. The final score: Alabama 29, Tennessee 9. BOOO!!! Behold a photo montage of the game (the stadium, the 'Bama fans, the halftime show, and a picture of Cara and I - blog storyline follows below):





As the closing seconds ticked off the clock, Cara and I had the distinct honor of hearing firsthand one of the more hated traditions in all college football - the dreaded Rammer Jammer cheer. That video is from the game. I did not shoot it. But, you can tell how loud and boisterous the visiting 'Bama fans are. There were quite a few of them still there celebrating as the dejected Tennessee fans streamed from the stadium. I can tell you one thing -- I will ALWAYS root against Alabama after hearing the Rammer Jammer in Neyland Stadium. Go Vols! "It's great to be a Tennessee Vol!" After the game, we all hit Cool Beans (a local watering hole) for a few drinks and then headed home, thoroughly wiped out from an eventful day.

Cara and I woke up the next morning and had brunch with my buddy Adam and his wife, Katie. We went to the Crown and Goose and the food was awesome. The mimosas weren't too bad either. Or, are they called molasses? Marmelade? Adam couldn't seem to get it right. We all had a great time visiting and were sad to see the time come for Adam and Katie to head back to their cabin (they were staying in the Smokies for their one year wedding anniversary). Overall, Cara and I had an incredible weekend. My fantasy football team (Westbrook's Walking Wounded) even managed to pull out a big victory and the high score for the week, which was a big step in securing my team a trip to the Fantasy FB playoffs. On that note, I've ranted, rambled, and raved for far too long by now. It's time for me to get back to course prep. I'm taking the afternoon at home to get some errands done around the house and also to get some research done! Wish me luck!!

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Teaching for Life

Now that my dad is showing me up in the blogging department, I figured it was about time for me to hop to it and post a blog.

My semester of teaching has really been an awesome experience -- but, it has certainly been busy too! My Accounting 200 students had an exam last night and of course the week or so leading up to the exam was filled up with tutoring, getting make-up exams sorted out, and all sorts fun administrative mumbo jumbo. On top of that, my BA353 section (where I'm a "business coach") had their Business Plan presentations last Friday (10/24). These count for 25% of their grade in the course so I also had my hands full in the week leading up to the big day to say the least. All in all, I had an extremely busy week and a half to two weeks that is just now starting to simmer down to a low boil...just in time for me to prepare for my 1st early-stage dissertation presentation next Friday.

I'm still struggling in some ways to find my niche in the classroom. I absolutely love teaching, but I still feel like I don't have an identity. I imagine that will develop over time. I get a rush of adrenaline from standing in front of the classroom and I especially enjoy working through problems with students one-on-one or in small group settings in my office. But at the same time, I feel majorly bummed when my students struggle and I take poor exam scores way too personally - it's hard not to have a vested interest in how my students perform. After the first exam, I spent hours examining and analyzing the test scores. I compared my students scores to the scores of students in other sections. I talked to classmates, professors, and even my parents about the emotions that flared up in response to having my students struggle with the material. And at the end of the day, I beat myself up quite a bit over things I could have done to better prepare my students for the exam. With the exam results from the second exam looming, I fear I may be headed down a similar path if my students do not perform up to their expectations.

The ups and downs of the semester have me feeling like I'm on a roller coaster at times. To compensate for the bummed out times, I pour a lot of time into teaching - a whole lot more than my allotted 10 hours a week for Accounting 200. This leaves me shortended on research and feeling a little bit anxious and uneasy about the prospect of trying to juggle all of the academic expectations in the future. I suppose that is part of the learning curve that I must follow - I certainly am learning a lot about myself and the nuances of teaching this semester. And I certainly do not ever plan to stop trying to learn, grow, and develop myself -- it is why I find the academic lifestyle so appealing in the first place.

At the end of the day - this has been one of the more challenging semesters I've faced in the Ph.D. program. I must say I'm more than little bit surprised about that -- I thought my Fall 2007 semester with Economics, Math Economics, and Multivariate Statistics would continue to reign supreme atop my heap of most challenging academic semesters. But, this semester has been surprising -- emotional, energizing, stressful, and all-in-all pretty amazing compressed into a few short months. I love the journey that I am on and most importantly, I have wonderful family and friends who love and support me every step of the way. I would be remiss if I didn't give Cara a big "shout-out" too...she has been such a wonderful strength and support for me in these emotional months. Thanks sweetheart -- I love you more than words.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Weekend Mania

Why is that weekends always seem to fill up so fast?!?
(not that I'm complaining)

Here's what Cara and I have on tap for this weekend.

Friday night - Rascal Flatts and Taylor Swift concert (7:30pm until ??) followed by a classmates' 30th birthday party (?? until the wee hours of the morning).

Saturday - Quinn (my old roommate) and Deborah (Quinn's fiancee and my old honorary roommate) come into town at 3pm. We tailgate for the UT/Alabama game until the start of the game at 7:30. We then will watch our Vols try their best not to get crushed by #2 ranked Alabama. And afterwards, we may hit the Strip for some shenooligans.

Sunday - Roll out of bed. Go to church to try and make penance for any sins we may have committed the night before. Have brunch with my friend Adam and his wife Katie at the Crown & Goose downtown. (Brunch Menu). I know what you're thinking. Mmmmmm...

Somewhere in all this, Cara and I must clean, continue to organize and straighten up around the house, prepare for painting (which is on our slate for the not-too-distant future), and get some rest!! Before we know it we'll be into a new week....YIKES!!

You can bet there will be some stories and pictures to follow the crazy adventures of this upcoming weekend. Check back next week for the full report.

Monday, October 20, 2008

The Theme of the Day is ROCK

Good morning!

So, I'm talking with Cara about my exciting new blog yesterday and I use the phrase, "Now that I'm a blogger..." to start a sentence...Cara wasn't buying it. She pushed me and teases, "You've posted one blog!!" She makes a good point. I still have some work to do to quote "become a blogger." I'm working on it.

In case you didn't know it, I rock. I've decided that is a good mantra to start a new week with. Accordingly, I've themed today's blog around that mantra.

  • The rock that rocked me
In my post yesterday I told you about the garagantuan, gi-normous, and granite grey (I got on a "g-theme") rock that took me out during the touch football match. I bet you're dying to see what this rock looked like. So, here it is. This picture still makes my knees ache.


I know. That rock is huge. How didn't I see it? Well, those of you that know me have a pretty good idea. I just know that it's a good thing I have superior bone density and structure. Because I am a big clutz. A bull in a china shop, if you will. No matter...I still rock. But that rock definitely rocked me.
  • Pumpkins that Rock
In my last blog, I promised photos of our rocking jack-o-lanterns. I've got pics of the whole fam-damily for your enjoyment. Presenting, the Jolly Rocker, T-Rockz, and a date that rocks (10-17-09 - our wedding date)...in all their beautiful, glowing-orange splendor:


Our happy little pumpkin family rocks. What did you carve (or what are you planning to carve) this year? Feel free to comment and send pictures!
  • Rocking the Knoxville Nightlife
On Friday night, Cara and I went out to dinner to celebrate our -1 wedding anniversary. Yep. You heard that right. Our one-year PRE-wedding anniversary. Pretty cheesy. Accordingly, we went to the melting pot for some delicious, cheesy fondue. I hear their chocolate fondue isn't too bad either...so we sampled some of that as well. A salad and the cooking fondue entree rounded out the middle of a very big meal quite nicely. The night made two things official; (1) Cara and I are now less than one year and counting to our wedding day, and (2) Cara and I were both officially uncomfortably full after eating the four-course Melting Pot feast. The following photographs provide stunning proof of point 2. Notice the glazed look in our eyes:


Look at me, I'm already calling wedding photographers. Or was it a taxi cab? Hmmm...

Cara and I rock. And we are both excited to rock (and roll) with friends in family in Spokane next autumn!! Woop woop!!

One final note. Since last Friday was our pre-wedding anniversary, I presented a wedding themed lecture in class. Seriously. How cool am I? I mean, teaching assets, liabilities and expenses using wedding reception site deposits - does it get any more awesome? To quote Barack Obama from the Al Smith Fundraiser Gala Dinner, my greatest weakness is that "it's possible that I'm a little too awesome." By the way...if you haven't watched video of BOTH McCain and Obama from this event. Do it right now. (Barack Video) (McCain Video). Hilarious.

On that note. I'm gonna sign off for today. In the spirit of today's theme, I encourage each of you to "rock on!"

Sunday, October 19, 2008

My First Post

First of all, let's all take a moment to congratulate me on my 1st blog post. It's a momentous occasion. I've finally joined the world of blogging and I am excited to share my insights, adventures and experiences with my friends, family, colleagues and whoever else may find this blog of interest. Okay, now on with the show:

Cara has now been in Knoxville two weeks and we've kept ourselves very busy. Last weekend, we went to the pumpkin patch for the perfect fall experience. We did a corn maze, hayride and we picked out three perfect pumpkins to make a happy little pumpkin family. I'll pop on in a later blog to describe our fall themed weekend and to post some pictures of the finished jack-o-lanterns...so feel free to be excited about that.

Yesterday, I did some cleaning around the house while Cara baked some fall-themed muffins. She made funfetti muffins with orange coconut topping and chocolate muffins with chocolate frosting and candy corns. Mmmm...mmmm! They were good. Mike's wife, Jennifer, even referred to them as very Marth Stewart-esque...she wasn't kidding. They were a hit at the cookout we went to last night, but there were sweets galore, so we brought quite a few home! I'm definitely looking forward to satisfying my sweet tooth!!

The cookout was good fun - Ernie Cadotte (a marketing professor) hosted at his beautiful lake house. The sunset speaks for itself...could you handle this view to wrap up each day? I could.


The night started with an interesting game of touch football. Being the competitive guy that I am, I joined the game (in-progress) the moment I arrived. The rules made the game a bit more like rugby in that forward passes were allowed (and encouraged!) even ahead of the line of scrimmage, which allowed more folks to get involved. It was all good fun - until that rock got in the way. On my team's second drive - we drew up a tricky double reverse play. The center snapped to our quarter back who handed the ball off to a player who swept around from the left. I swept around from the right and took another hand off and sprinted off to the left. Just when I was about to be touched, I flipped the ball off to Ernie. Knowing that we could continue to lateral the ball, I figured I had a wide open sideline ahead of me as our opponents swarmed Ernie. So, I took off sprinting, intending for Ernie to flip the ball back to me so I could "house it." I didn't make it that far. Just as I was accelerating and calling for the ball, I felt my legs being swept out from underneath me..and it didn't feel good. I had run smack into a gigantic rock. Next thing I know, I'm lying on my belly on top of this momentous boulder that someone had strategically placed directly on the field near the sideline. A bit dazed I rolled off the rock and surveyed the damage. My knees were both bloodied and I also managed to scratch my arms up quite a bit. Yeah. Not a smooth move. What my collision did do, however, is provide a pretty darned good distraction. While half of the other team was watching this spectacle in complete disbelief and awe, my teammates were able to take the ball all the way down field for the score - our only of the game. The game ended in a 1-1 tie. And I was carried off the field as a hero. Okay, maybe I just imagined that.

After the game, we feasted on burgers, pasta salads, and desserts aplenty. We then gathered around the campfire to stay warm. The fire more than did it's job.


All in all - a great evening. Though I could've done without the broken kneecaps!!

Cheers all - more to come!!

MH